To Destroy Can Feel Good – Courage Cafe

Courage Café Chat

Wednesday, October 21, 2015 – 8pm ET

To Destroy Can Feel Good 

 Courage Cafe Leopard Turquiouse Eyes

How do you feel about destroying what must be destroyed in your life?

This question has pondered me all week it was a question in the ‪#‎desiremap Planner Sunday, October 11th.

Earlier this week I wrote a blog on this and posted on Facebook – I had over 250 likes and several comments – seems like it really struck a core!

Destroying seems like a very powerful word. Most would associate it with violence, negativity, riots, vandalism or even the possibly of war.  But haven’t you ever felt a great relief after taking down something that was not good for your soul.  How about a wall in your apartment or house or old wallpaper or even an art project or craft that just was not cooperating…….then you smashed it and something better appeared!

For me I focus in on taking down the old conditioning in my mind that once stopped me in my tracks from the big magic that’s happening right now in my life.  Actually has been unfolding and I was not seeing the journey only looking for this hit me in the face feeling to happen.  For me, it’s all about destroying old beliefs, some habits of  self-sabotage and I am discovering my gifts of helping others create change in their lives with Desire Map Workshops, Power Presentations in Baltimore and simply opening up the possibility of “what if” “as one looks inside themselves to learn how to peel away the onion and be the courageous person you are meant to be!

I love the bonus part of the Desire Map workshop when we talk about how we already have what we want and need.

When we shift to that we ease up on ourselves…with people around us and we definitely feel more grateful. Gratitude then automatically shows up in our service to others….no matter if its service in love to our families or our service thru our businesses to others.

I love this graphic! I absolutely adore a visual which creates inside of me a fierce fabulous fiery feeling — Look into these beautiful turquoise eyes…destroying can be big!  Let’s shift our mindset to think about “destroying” in an empowering way!

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Chat Questions Below:

Q1          How do you feel about the word “destroying”?

Q2          Joseph Campbell said “Destruction first, then creation” Agree or Disagree” Explain

Q2          Share one thing that is not working in your life?

Q3          Do you have the ability to change it?

Q4          Destroying can be the start of something glorious – share a positive experience

Q5          How do old thoughts, beliefs, conditioning keep us trapped?

Q6          Share some practices that have created joy, gratitude and ease in your life?

Q7          How do we know what needs to be released, changed, destroyed or left alone?

Q8          How important is it to acknowledge how you “feel”?  Do we honor this enough in our lives?

Q9          What do you want that YOU already have?

Q10        How will courage allow you to give yourself permission to “destroy” something to move onward?

Courage Café Chat allows us to walk together and find courage even when life throws us curve balls.  How we “feel” often determines our actions.  Speaking our truth and accepting where we are in this place and time allows us to shift and create new ways of feeling and thinking to open doors.

It takes insane courage to detach and speak from the inside out…..heart centered living or soulful living to walk tall and believe we are enough, we matter.

After all….isn’t life about the journey and the feeling?  Just need a dash of courage to get you there!

When you are grateful you cannot be fearful

Leave tonight in courage, knowing there is something bigger inside your soul!

Gaining clarity on how you feel inside will evoke the best of you that is yet to come.  All the juicy breakdowns, breakthroughs and transformations you experience truly ARE the journey of life.

My hope is you embrace this process and continue to join us – I am eternally honored and grateful you are here

 Be Curious Creative Connect with Courage XO Denise

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